Urgent, Xmail problem

I am having a problem with xmail keeps trying to send out mail on port 110 to
66,151,178.107 and the only thing in the /var/spool qmail directory is this:


tcp 0 0 0.0.0.0:110 0.0.0.0:* LISTEN 0 170213 8537/XMail
tcp 0 1 192.168.1.3:40504 66.151.178.107:110 SYN_SENT 0 170521 8537/XMail
udp 0 0 0.0.0.0:110 0.0.0.0:* 0 154325 7996/portsentry
tcp 0 0 0.0.0.0:110 0.0.0.0:* LISTEN 0 170213 8537/XMail
tcp 0 1 192.168.1.3:40504 66.151.178.107:110 SYN_SENT 0 170521 8537/XMail


When I stop xmail services delete all the files in the /var/spool/xmail directories then
restart it after a few seconds it doing the same thing. I also reloaded the entire debian and Xmail and I am still having the same problem. How can I fix this problem please?


my /etc/hosts file has the correct domain name taylorassociate.com. Does the server tab file look ok.

taylorassociate:/etc/xmail# more server.tab
#
# Example configuration file.
# Note : remember to use _REAL_ TABs and " to format this file
#
"RootDomain" "taylorassociate.com"
"SmtpServerDomain" "taylorassociate.com"
"POP3Domain" "taylorassociate.com"
"HeloDomain" "taylorassociate.com"
"PostMaster" "root@taylorassociate.com"
"ErrorsAdmin" "root@taylorassociate.com"
#"TempErrorsAdmin" "send-failures@taylorassociate.com"
#"DefaultSMTPGateways" "192.168.1.2,192.168.1.15"
"RemoveSpoolErrors" "0"
"Pop3LogPasswd" "0"
#"NoSenderBounce" "1"
#"DisableEmitAuthUser" "1"
#"NotifyMsgLine***tra" "8"
#"NotifySendLogToSender" "0"
#"NotifyTryPattern" "1"
"MaxMTAOps" "16"
"ReceivedHdrType" "0"
"FetchHdrTags" "+X-Deliver-To,+Received,To,Cc"
#"SmtpGwConfig" "NeedTLS=1,OutBind=192.168.1.1"
#"EnableCTRL-TLS" "1"
#"EnableSMTP-TLS" "1"
#"EnablePOP3-TLS" "1"
#"SmtpMsgIPBanSpammers" "550 Denied due inclusion of your IP in our spam lists"
#"SmtpMsgIPBanSpamAddress" "550 Denied due inclusion of your email address in our spam
lists"
#"SmtpMsgIPBanMaps" "550 Denied due inclusion of your IP in the following map"
#"CustomSMTPMessage" "Please open http://www.taylorassociate.com/smtp_errors.html to get
more information about this error"
#"MaxMessageSize" "20000"
#"EnableAuthSMTP-POP3" "0"
#"Pop3SyncErrorAccount" "psync-errors@taylorassociate.com"
#"AllowNullSender" "1"
#"AllowSmtpVRFY" "1"
#"AllowSmtpETRN" "1"
#"SMTP-MaxErrors" "4"
#"SmtpMinDiskSpace" "100000"
#"SmtpMinVirtMemSpace" "64000"
#"Pop3MinVirtMemSpace" "64000"
#"CustMapsList" "list.dsbl.org.:1,blackholes.mail-abuse.org.:1,dialups.mail-abuse.org.:0"
#"SMTP-RDNSCheck" "1"
#"CheckMailerDomain" "1"
#"SmartDNSHost" "dns.home.bogus.net:tcp,192.168.1.1:udp"
#"SmtpConfig" "mail-auth"
#"SmtpConfig-192.168.0.1" "mail-auth"
"DefaultSmtpPerms" "MRVZ"

It's just a SYN packet sent to www.bentleypublishers.com. SYN packets are used to establish connections. Using these special packets both servers agree on a serial number for all following TCP packages, to detect and resend of missing packets.

From Wikipedia:

I'm not a TCP pro but my EUR 0.02 are:

Perhaps someone@bentleypublishers.com is trying to send YOU email?

Not everything sent to port 110 is email?